WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT RAMADAN (EPISODE 11)


By Yusuff Ademola Adesina

Episode 11: The Etiquette of Eid-el-Fitr

Indeed, all praise and adoration is to Allah. May the peace and blessing of Allah be upon the last messenger, Prophet Muhammad, his households, his companions, and those on the path of righteousness until the Day of Judgment. 

The life of this world is finite, and our time in the earth is predetermined and limited. It wasn’t long ago that everyone was excited about the commencement of Ramadan, but now, Ramadan has come and ready to leave. Everyone is now waiting in anticipation to celebrate the joyful Day of Eid.

Eid-el-fitr day is the first of day of the month of Shawwal. It marks the end of Ramadan, which is a month of fasting. Muslims are required to attend communal prayer, listen to the Khutubah (Sermon) and give zakatul-fitr. It is a day of worship, a day of peace and thanksgiving, and a day of festive. Muslims are thus permitted to spend money on foods, drinks, clothes and other permissible action. The following is the list of etiquette to follow on day of Eid-el-Fitr:

1.       Doing Ghusl before going out for prayer.

It was narrated that Abdullah Ibn Umar used to do ghusl on the day of Fitr before going out to the prayer-place in the morning. (al-Muawatta, 428)

2.       Eating before going out for Eid-el-Fitr prayer

Anas bin Malik narrated: Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) never proceeded (for the prayer) on the Day of Eid-el-Fitr unless he had eaten some dates.” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 5)

However, whoever does not have dates should eat anything that is permissible. This is to ward off the possibility of adding to the fast, and to hasten to the command of Allah.   

3.       Saying Takbeer on the day of Eid

This is one of the greatest sunnah of Eid. It was narrated that al-Waleed ibn Muslim said: I asked al-Awzaa’i and Maalik ibn Anas about saying Takbeer out loud on the two Eids. They said, ‘Yes’, ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Umar used to say it out loud on the day of al-Fitr until the imam came out (to lead the prayers).

It was narrated in a saheeh report that ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sulami said, “They emphasized it more on the day of al-Fitr than the day of al-Adha.”. Wakee’ said, this refers to the takbeer. (See Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 3/122/)

The time for Takbeer on Eid-el-Fitr starts from the night before Eid until the Imam enters to lead the Eid prayer.

Description of Takbeer

It was narrated in the Musannaf of Ibn Abi Shaybah with a saheeh isnaad from Ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) that he used to recite takbeer during the days of tashreeq:

Allaahu akbar, Allaahu akbar, laa ilaaha ill-Allaah, wa Allaahu akbar, Allaah akbar, wa Lillaah il-hamd (Allaah is Most Great, Allaah is most Great, there is no god but Allaah, Allaah is Most great, Allaah is most great, and to Allaah be praise). (Reference: https://islamqa.info/en/36442)

4.       No Nafil (voluntary prayer) before or after the Eid prayer

Ibn Abbas narrated: The Prophet (PBUH) offered a two rak’at prayer on the Day of Eid-el-Fitr and he did not pray before or after it…” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 13)

5.       Sadaqah: give alms

Ibn Abbas narrated: The Prophet (PBUH) offered a two rak’at prayer on the Day of Eid-el-Fitr and he did not pray before or after it. Then he went towards women along with Bilal and ordered them to pay alms and so they started giving their earnings and necklaces (in charity)” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 13)

6.       Everyone should go out for the Eid prayer

Um Atiya narrated: “We used to be ordered to come out on the Day of Eid and even bring out the virgin girls from their houses and menstruating women so that they might stand behind the men and say Takbir along with them and invoke Allah along with them and hope for the blessings of that day and for purification from sins.” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 20)

Hafsa narrated the above mentioned Hadith and added: “The mature girls or virgins staying in seclusion but the menstruating women had to keep away from the Musalla (prayer-pace)” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 23)

7.       Offering congratulations

The etiquette of Eid also includes the congratulations and good wishes exchanged by people, no matter what the wording, such as saying to one another Taqabbala Allaah minna wa minkum (May Allaah accept (good deeds) from us and from you” or “Eid mubaarak” and other permissible expressions of congratulations. (Reference: https://islamqa.info/en/36442)

8.       Adorning oneself

It was narrated that Abdullah ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said that ‘Umar took a brocade cloak that was for sale in the market and brought it to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, buy this and adorn yourself with it for Eid and for receiving the delegations.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to him, “Rather this is the dress of one who has no share (of piety or of reward in the Hereafter)…” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 948.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) agreed with ‘Umar on the idea of adorning oneself for Eid, but he denounced him for choosing this cloak because it was made of silk. So a man should wear the best clothes that he has when going out for Eid.

With regard to women, they should avoid adorning themselves when they go out for Eid, because they are forbidden to show off their adornments to non-mahram men. It is also haraam for a woman who wants to go out to put on perfume or to expose men to temptation, because they are only going out for the purpose of worship. (Reference: https://islamqa.info/en/36442)

9.       Going to the prayer-place by one route and returning by another 

Jabir bin Abdullah narrated: “On the Day of Eid the Prophet (PBUH) used to return (after offering the Eid prayer) through a way different from that by which he went.” (Sahih Bukhari, Book of the two festivals, no. 23)
Jazakumul-Laahu Khayran. 
Taqabal-Laahu minaa waminkum. 
Eid Mubarak to you all. 
May Allaah reward for following this series, check out for the last episode of this series discussing the question; What next after Ramadan? 

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